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Helped me tremendously! Answered questions about
why I react or do things in a certain way. Now I
don't feel as if I need to apologize for being who
I am. Nor do I need to give an explanation. I
understand something very important about myself.
I'm not damaged goods. It's not my fault that I
feel the way I do because my parents taught me to
feel the way they wanted me to (and then got angry
at me for it!) It's a good self-help book. I'm not
good at the therapy thing because I can't voice
what I want to say because I was taught to shut
up, suck it up, sit it out, swallow it and never,
never share anything with anybody for any reason
and if you do you will be so very, very sorry.
Alcolhism really did affect each and every one of
my family members and their children and their
grandchildren and will keep on affecting them
negatively until you learn about how alcohism
works on a person's identity. Really do yourself a
favor and read this. With a box of tissues. It's
painful but it works.